had my karaoke session with my girls and mr tan today...
enjoying and singing out my lung eventhough the voice sucks...
haha..but i enjoy..
how i wish i can enjoy every single moment with my loved one..
=)
but good thing over like how water flow..
i need to overcome all the problems..
cos i know,it wont work and be solved if i keep it in my heart forever..
but i am just too scare to take it out and find solution..
say i am coward..
that's a thing that was in my mind long long time ago..
parent's love is always fair,isnt it?
i admit,i once feel that my parents are always unfair to me..
unfair to me in the sense of loving us unequally..
but sooner or later,i found out that they actually loved us equally..
just in another way that we wouldnt realise if we didnt really open up our heart..
argh..just a matter of life that i feel we all should noe bout that..
no matter how old we are,respecting each other is really important..
its not that the younger one shud always respect the older one..
so how bout respecting the younger one?
please,u r old enough to think..
i wont give a damn on ppl who tot they are senior enuf til they don even bother saying sorry to us..
n hello,i wont step behind too..
grrrrr.....
i feel so depressed...
i need space.
i seriously need some space.
2 comments:
If you are the younger one, you are the one who should respect the older and do not expect the older one to respect you.
Common sense, you studied moral education since primary school, did you learn any lessons that teach you to respect the younger one?
Example, if your parents accidentally do something that hurt you or wrong to you, do you expecting them to apologise to you? or if they did, will you feel guilty?
If you are in working life, your superior did something wrong to you, do you want them to apologise to you as well? Will you feel guilt if they did?
Think yourself if you have someone younger than you wants you to apologise to them, will you? Sometime something is not as simple as you thing. In working life, with your position as superior, you are not supposed to apologise to your down line. If really in this case, you will never get respect from your down line again.
Remember this.
this matter is not linked with working life or morale. yea morale did only teach us to respect the elders wan.... but morale also didn't state that elders one don't need to respect younger one... as what i know, in a family , we should respect each other. of course no matter how our parent treat us, we still need to respect them. but i'm not able to respect the one who didn't respect their parent..
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